Letters To Juliet

well, this movie was shown a few years ago, and it was only now that i got the chance to watch it...thanks to the good friend who refer me this film ... perhaps she can see that i can somehow relate with the story. hahaha..

well, it depends upon who's character's story is closely IDENTICAL with my situation...

is the story of CLAIRE who's already engaged, yet her fiance's too consumed with his own "DREAMS" not that into her or her interests and passion?

or is it the story of "THE OLD WOMAN" who has finally had the courage to pursue and find again her SOUL MATE after 50 years!

who knows... which is which...

i guess, i have i little bit of both characters! hhmmmmm.....

but what i realized about this movie is that:

1.) couple really out-grow each other if the other one is SELF-CENTERED and unconciously neglecting the other, because he/she is just too consumed with his/ her own life's happenings (be it...work or other kind of distractions and obsessions of useless things.
(the key word here is: BE MORE SENSITIVE)


2.) compatibility does NOT mean that you both should have the same INTERESTS...

but rather, it means that, you are WILLING TO COMPROMISE and give importance to the other person's PASSION (even if you are not that into it). just to show that his/her hobbies and interests matter to you! your significant other's achievement is also your happiness. right?

(the key word here is: learn to COMPROMISE and SUPPORT!)

3.) "WHAT" and "IF" are two different words that seem HARMLESS... but if you put these two words together, you have "WHAT IF???" and it's meaning has totally changed.

"WHAT IF?" it seems a bit Scary word...

to think through things asking yourself "WHAT IF?" would make you think of the possible outcome if you're not going to DECIDE TO TAKE A BIG LEAP. but as long as you follow what your GUT and your HEART tells you... then, go for it.

you will be haunted for the "WHAT IF..." on your mind.

yes, NO "BUTs...."  NO "IFs...."
just go for it for god sakes!  :)